Make it easy for guests to respond with just one click — by enabling RSVP directly on your wedding website.

Why Enable RSVP?

Letting your guests RSVP directly on your wedding website:

  • Saves time — no need for back-and-forth messaging
  • Reduces errors — all responses are automatically tracked
  • Feels modern and effortless for your guests
  • Updates your guest list & seating in real time in Thebigdays

Note: The RSVP feature is turned on automatically by default when your wedding website is created.

On Thebigdays App

    1. Go to the Home Page
    2. Tap Wedding Website
    3. Tap Website Contents 
    4. Tap the Edit button next to RSVP Form
    5. Toggle ON to enable RSVP, or OFF to disable it
    6. Adjust related RSVP settings, including:
      • Edit form questions (e.g., attendance, meal choice, song request)
      • Allow guests to edit submitted RSVP if they change their mind
      • Max guests allowed per registration (e.g., families or couples)
      • Cut-off time to stop RSVPs after a deadline
      • Other advanced settings (messages, required fields, etc.)
    7. Once ready, tap Save to apply

On Web Dashboard

  1. Log in at https://wedding.thebigdays.com
  2. From your dashboard, click Wedding Website in the sidebar
  3. Select the RSVP Section
  4. Click Edit to open RSVP settings
  5. Toggle ON to enable RSVP (or OFF to disable it)
    • Adjust RSVP options as needed, such as:
    • Edit form questions (attendance, meal choice, notes)
    • Allow guests to update RSVP after submission
    • Set maximum number of guests per registration
    • Set RSVP cut-off date and time
  6. Click Save Changes to publish

RSVP Field Customization Options

You can choose which questions to ask guests when they RSVP:

Option Question Description
Guest Name Please enter your name to RSVP. Ask guests to enter their name to RSVP
Guest Attending Status Will you be attending our wedding? “Will you be attending our wedding?”
Number of Guest How many people are in your group? Allow guests to confirm how many people are in their group
Group Member Enter your guests name. Collect the names of additional guests (family or +1)
Dietary Request Do you need any dietary requests? Guests can note allergies, vegetarian, or special meal requirements.
Special Request Do you need any special requests? Space for any other guest notes (e.g., seating, accessibility)
Contact Information Enter your email to receive confirmation after registration. Collect email or phone number so guests receive confirmation after registering.